“In four years…where do you see yourself?”

That’s the question of the moment: “In four years, where do you see yourself?” This week the girls had their future planning meeting for 9th grade. In 65 days they will be 14 years old. In 228 days – give or take – they will be Freshmen. In an estimated 1,608 days they will graduate … Continue reading

Oh, my heart…

This one stings. Lately, a lot of Olena’s comments have stung… This morning, as I was commenting on another autism group’s Facebook post, Olena — who once said she is never in my blog because she is, and I quote, “the only normal one,” just looked at me with no expression on her face whatsoever … Continue reading

Three Years

Today, three years ago, we began a journey of healing. Along with it came intense frustration at the lack of services in Central New York for those on the severe end of the autism spectrum. At a time of severe crisis we found there wasn’t an inpatient treatment program to adjust the mental health needs … Continue reading

2020 Revisited

Greetings 2021. Welcome. We made it through our first Monday of the year, and hopefully you’ve remembered that it is ’21. The time between Christmas and New Year’s (and, for us, Ukrainian Christmas) is a total blur. But being it is 2021 and we’re looking at more time in quarantine, I figured I should review … Continue reading

Santa Claus 2020

A friend of mine organized a gift drive to help families in need. All of the families also happen to have a loved one on the autism spectrum. While I wasn’t in the position to purchase something off the list, I did the two next best things: I baked cookies and I wrote this poem. … Continue reading

Quarantine-ing. Again.

More later folks as life has been busy. I haven’t posted since October (sorry) and we are all remote, again. More coming soon. I promise. Now to pick up these crushed melts…thank goodness Theo is learning how to use the vacuum. He uses it more than the girls. Ah, 13….

Wow. A month later…

Wow. A month later…

So much can happen in a month… Online learning continues. For the most part, it is going well. Theo still sits on the couch in the hallway waiting for the bus each morning, but once we get him downstairs, and once he gets over his pouty-face, he gets into the groove of things. Of course, … Continue reading